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love and relationships? nice guys always finish last in the end
Thanks for taking the time to read my personal and wonder if anyone out there can relate to what I am saying and more. Are you like me, trusting, respectful and honestly looking for a real and long lasting relationship and all you seem to find is fakers, losers and players? Ever wonder if there is something wrong with you or if your doing something wrong?? The answer is NO! Your not the one with the issue, its all the others out there with the issues. What do I mean by that?? Read on... Have you ever seen the "Sleepless in Seattle or When Met "?? Granted they are with big stars but if you take that aside and look into the movie as a whole, you see its normal people who want to be someone and find someone special. Hanks and or Crystal and , 2 people who are so un-alike in normal lives but seem to have that special connection on the big screen, The movie "You got mail" with Hanks and , a good example of today's world with computers and personal sites. Complete opposites in what the movie starts as and no connection at all but giving it a chance, they connect in ways that neither could ever imagine. Why do they work??? Its because they cared, gave love a chance, had trust not to give up so easily and meet the person and know them in person and see if there was any connection and more. This is a HUGE problem today for most people don't even take that simple step to know someone in person anymore but think they know you well. 1. You take the time to write a respectful and honest personal ad on this or other sites, hoping that you can find someone who is real, respectful and honest like you are and what do you get for ?? You get lame responses like, (I like your ad), (can't send you a normal or complete ), (some lame asking you to find there personal information on some that they "claim" is free but is NOT!!!) these people are simply a JOKE!!! 2. You read all these ads on this and other sites, people "claiming" to be looking for someone real, looking for a real friendship and relationship, "claiming" that they are real and very serious and you take the time to respond to them, telling them about you and what your looking for and what you like about there ad and what do you get in return?? You get (no response at all), (a lame claiming that they are seeing someone or not looking anymore), (send a worthless of someone "claiming to be them, holding a sign or contact that isn't real) I seriously need to ask?? whats the point??? 3. Then you deal with people who are so damn picky about looks and chemistry like they are experts on the subject. You talk to someone and you get to know someone and it seems to be going well and you send a to them. Suddenly they say things like (sorry its not going to work out) (your not my type sorry) (no return ) or anything along those lines. In my opinion, NO ONE can know whether you have chemistry with anyone by only a which is only one moment in time and tells you nothing about them. To truly know if you have chemistry with someone is to know them personally, meet them in person and understand the real person that they are inside. It takes time to know whether there is chemistry and not just a quick look at a will tell you anything. Sadly there are so many who will judge you on your and that only shows that there nose is so stuck up in the air that they can't see the real people who are on the ground. They say "opposites attract" but many don't get it or want to get it. People want someone who is like them and don't get it that finding someone, like you, is like the same poles of 2 different magnets. What happens when you put 2 positives or negatives together, they each other!! I feel that if you are so stuck on what you want is like you then you will be alone for a very long time, if not always. You will never find what your looking for if you can't see the forest before the . With all that being said, if there is someone out there who understands and can relate to what you read and wants to find a person who is normal, real, honest and straight-forward about things and will treat you right, I hope to hear from you. I hope there someone who can show me that what I am saying is not just ranting and raving but what those people, like me, have been wanting to say and dealing with too. If your looking for someone real, I hope to hear from you!!!!
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