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Thank you for reading this- as much as I'd like to take for what's written, I can't. I can however say it's the most accurate to how I feel and rather than rewrite it, I "borrowed" it. ( ; it was written by a very articulate woman.) At the bottom, if you get that far, you'll learn about me. You reading this post in its entirety and you not writing it off as the lame, (or if you will) the same ol, same ol. . .of perhaps you and I sharing an or two with hopes that we can open ourselves up be the possibility of getting to know one another, under of course the premise that we may very well have found. . .what were looking for. And what is that...we've so often asked ourselves, what would it look like, feel like. . .we know with absolute certainty that we're not getting it at home (I cant imagine we'd be here if we were). Our transition from a couple to mom, dad, doctor, chauffeur, referee, employee, friend, etc, etc, etc has any sense of identity beyond that, and quite honestly we need more. which again has us here...reaching out to one another, with hopes. We have no regrets, as there are various aspects of our lives that we wouldn't change, wish too...but there are clearly some things missing...maybe its the car rides, where we've learned to say absolutely nothing to each other (perhaps because there is nothing left to talk about, and actually find a certain level of comfort with that) or the intimate-less bedroom moments, (where we've learned to engage out of obligation rather than want or desire) or maybe its the two ships passing in the night (so to speak), where the identity of all I've mentioned (or lack thereof) has us doing nothing more than the . If I still have your attention, then my guess is that you can identify with some (if not all) of the things I've spoken of. I've written this because I'm looking to connect with someone (maybe you) that perhaps with the communication I've spoken of earlier, will open itself up to a certain level of comfort where we can exchange one another's cells (respecting of course all of the boundaries that come with that...) where we can place the occasional or perhaps share an occasional text or two... In placing those s, and/or sending those messages maybe we'll get to a point where we'll want to make plans to connect, perhaps for a cup of coffee, an afternoon or early evening walk, or maybe dinner...all in an attempt explore the possibilities of getting to know one another on the levels that no longer exist, and haven't for quite some time. If we're successful and find that we like what we see, perhaps then we can share an intimate moment in the likes of a soft and sensual kiss, and follow up with a conversation where we can talk about the possibilities of taking what we've found (and are clearly intrigued by) to another level, in the sense of perhaps going someplace where we can perhaps light a candle, listen to soft music, maybe a little Legend, Luther Vandross, Al Green, Marvin ...dance, and begin the process of reminding ourselves that we're more than the identities that have been created at home. Maybe we'll take a shower together, where you'll allow me to wash your body, and I'll allow you to wash mine...all the while touching one another in places that out of "obligation" have been ignored for so long. Maybe, we'll guide one another onto the bed...or perhaps stay where we are and begin the process of truly exploring the possibilities... Of my meeting your needs, and perhaps you meeting mine, whether it be in the shower where kissing, touching, engaging in one another's wants and desires...we know what they are without ever uttering a word about them, or in a bed wrapped in one another's needs. We'll begin to realize that...we are truly alive. Now I can sit here and shout out all of the things that I'm capable of in the bedroom, but there's no point, this place is full of posts that speak to that...and I have to ask myself how successful the authors have truly been in finding what they're looking for. I'm not certain they are...for the record I am a 5'11" 47-year-old self employed man, who in the grand realm of things is doing ok. I drink occasionally as I have a penchant for really good wine. I don't do (been there done that) and as you can probably tell...yes, I am in a relationship that has me looking for more... I'm not here to thrill seek (don't have the time) or play , in short, I'm here for all of the reasons mentioned above. Thanks for reading... if this "touches" you like it did me.. shoot an . I'd love to hear from you!
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