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I obviously haven't been clear with what I am looking for...
OK. I've obviously done a poor job expressing my reason for posting and what I am looking for. So I am giving it one last try before I give up on . And by the way, I'll never respond to any more posts from women on . Most of them either lie about what they're looking for or don't acknowledge your response to their ad at all. 1. I am married. If you have no interest in chatting with or responding to a married man, no problem. Here it is - right up front. Simply stop reading and move to the next posting. I don't need you to reply and let me know what an awful person I am. If that's your opinion (without knowing me or my situation), then that's fine. You're entitled to it, even if it is uninformed. Just please do not take the time to me and tell me. 2. I am in a passionless marriage. It's been so long that I couldn't tell you exactly how I got here even if I wanted to. It just seems to have happened. And I have made efforts to make it better, but I have been unable to do so. I'm happy with my life overall, including my 2 great . I want to continue to be a full-time dad to them, but it still leaves me lonely and missing having that person to share passion and desire with. 3. So, what am I looking for? I am looking for a passionate affair. Again, if this offends you, that's fine. Stop reading and move on to another post. 4. I am not just looking for sex. That being said, I do want to have a , sexual affair as well as an emotional one. So let me be clear. I do want to share a sexual relationship with someone outside of my marriage. If you are only looking for an emotional connection, then you don't want to respond to this post. 5. I am not looking to change my situation. I intend to stay married at least until my are out of , which is basiy 3-4 years from now. If you are looking for someone who can spend time in a 100% devoted relationship to you, then don't respond to this post. 6. I am looking to meet in person - fairly soon. That doesn't mean I want to meet you in a hotel one day after you respond. I am not just looking to get into some woman's panties. If that was all I wanted, I could do that in a variety of ways without posting here. However, I do not want to spend weeks emailing and texting. I think people can spend way too much time trying to discern personalities through and texting. Personalities can best be discerned by meeting someone in person. I know - crazy concept. That's just me. I grow frustrated with the misconceived tones from communication. If you are interested in getting to know me and finding out what I am like, then meet me. If you are looking for a chat buddy, then don't respond to my post. 7. I am a father. I take this part of my life very seriously. I have limited availability during the evening and weekends. This doesn't mean I can't meet during those times. But my main availability is during the day. I am self-employed with a very flexible schedule. I realize this is not ideal for a lot of people. That's ok. If you don't have availability during the day, then don't respond to my ad. If you expect that I will leave my family at 9:00 p.m. to somehow meet you, then you are mistaken. Most of the time, I can't do that. I am looking for something discrete. That's not going to be discrete for me. But I do think there could be some housewives or business women who have flexibility with their schedules who are feeling the same frustrations in their marriage as I am. I struggled with posting this because I was afraid I might scare too many people off. But I decided that it's better to be up front as much as possible about what I am looking for. That way neither of us become frustrated by the lack of connection. If you read all of this and still have interest, please respond with "let's give it a go" in the subject line.
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